Christmas books are among my favorite collections and I have found many of the illustrations to be just the right decorating touch. for the holidays and other times of the year. Jan Brett is a favorite children's book illustrator and her Christmas Treasury contains a beautiful presentation of "A Partridge in a Pear Tree", which complements my pear, pomegranate and hydrangea holiday arrangement.
I hope that you will continue to join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Monday, December 6, 2010
Christmas Joys #6 - Our Tiny Kitchen Christmas Tree
This little tree came from Hobby Lobby and is wrapped in burlap. The snow people can be made to glow with tea lights. I love the Santa tray, a gift from my daughter, and the miniature Christmas books -- the smallest members of my holiday book collection.
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Christmas Joys #5 - Some More Special Tree Ornaments
As you can tell, our Christmas tree has quite a "symphony" of decorations, but none are more important to me than those that were made by hand by my children. The paper and beaded candy canes and the felt horse were added to our ornament collection about twenty-five years ago and share the stage with more "elegant" ornaments such as the dated 1981 Dove of Peace. The little knitted jingle bell is one of several and is also beginning to show some age.
When we downsized our home, we also had to reduce the size of our tree, which makes it necessary to snuggle the ornaments more closely.
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
When we downsized our home, we also had to reduce the size of our tree, which makes it necessary to snuggle the ornaments more closely.
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Christmas Joys #4 - A Holiday Memory from the Court Square
This 1950's photograph is from a Christmas party at James Kahn's Department Store in Kennett, Missouri. Two of the ladies pictured here have been very precious to me during my life; on the far left is my Aunt Ann, who was like my grandmother, and in the middle (third from the right) is my stepmother, Jo Ann, who married my dad in 1985.
That both of them were employed by James Kahn's has special significance to me at Christmas, because it takes me back to my childhood when I bought gifts for friends and family. That always meant a trip to the town square, where I did most of my shopping at Kahn's and Blakemore Drug Store, just a few steps away. My Aunt Ann always took a few minutes to help and advise me on my purchases, and I would usually stop by the office to say hello to Jo Ann. Later, when I was a teenager, I got a job at Kahn's wrapping gifts during the school Christmas break. (I was one of dozens of girls, including Sheryl Crow, who were lucky enough to get a Christmas job at Kahns through the years.)
Both Ann and Jo Ann are gone now (Jo Ann left us November 7), but they will always be in my heart and in my Christmas memories.
James Kahn's closed its doors several years ago, but the building is enjoying a new life (or should I say, a renewed one). The building first opened as an opera house, and is again "The Opera House", a venue for special events in town. I understand that a small part of the department store was maintained when the remodeling was done.
Gift-wrapper Sheryl Crow returned to Kennett to give a special benefit concert at the Opera House to an audience of 250 the day after Thanksgiving. And tomorrow, December 5, the Opera House will open its doors from 1:00 until 3:00 to welcome in the holiday season and continue the tradition of Christmas on the court quare.
I know that Ann and Jo Ann would love that!
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
That both of them were employed by James Kahn's has special significance to me at Christmas, because it takes me back to my childhood when I bought gifts for friends and family. That always meant a trip to the town square, where I did most of my shopping at Kahn's and Blakemore Drug Store, just a few steps away. My Aunt Ann always took a few minutes to help and advise me on my purchases, and I would usually stop by the office to say hello to Jo Ann. Later, when I was a teenager, I got a job at Kahn's wrapping gifts during the school Christmas break. (I was one of dozens of girls, including Sheryl Crow, who were lucky enough to get a Christmas job at Kahns through the years.)
Both Ann and Jo Ann are gone now (Jo Ann left us November 7), but they will always be in my heart and in my Christmas memories.
James Kahn's closed its doors several years ago, but the building is enjoying a new life (or should I say, a renewed one). The building first opened as an opera house, and is again "The Opera House", a venue for special events in town. I understand that a small part of the department store was maintained when the remodeling was done.
Gift-wrapper Sheryl Crow returned to Kennett to give a special benefit concert at the Opera House to an audience of 250 the day after Thanksgiving. And tomorrow, December 5, the Opera House will open its doors from 1:00 until 3:00 to welcome in the holiday season and continue the tradition of Christmas on the court quare.
I know that Ann and Jo Ann would love that!
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Friday, December 3, 2010
Christmas Joys #3 - Santa Claus is Coming to my Bathtub
Years ago, I started collecting "architectural miniatures", or as I call them, "little houses." I have a variety, in several sizes, and once displayed many of them throughout the house during the holidays. Now that we have downsized, I found myself searching for a place for just a few, and having found that there was no tabletop real estate left in the other rooms, settled on the shelf between the tub and shower in our master bath. The separating glass is usually a bit foggy, which adds to the vignette. These are from Dillards; I think that I have about 50 of them.
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Christmas Joys #2 - Decorating my Desk
The large beribboned Christmas ball is a product of a library workshop last year -- just the thing to decorate a small area with another vintage ornament and guilded words of the season. Be sure and check with your library for special holiday events and workshops during December!
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Christmas Joys -- A Special Tree Ornament
I hope that you will join me throughout the month of December as I post about some special decorations, traditions, collections and memories that bring the joy of the season to our house. Perhaps you will want to respond with your own story or comment about what brings happiness to your heart at Christmas. I would love to hear from you and look forward to sharing a bit of Christmas! Annie
Our Christmas tree is decorated with a mix of handmade and purchased, elegant and folksy, whimsical and traditional ornaments. What is constant is that each item on the tree has special meaning to our family and I take pleasure in recalling that meaning each year. This little angel was crafted by my Aunt Lona Mae, who celebrated her 100th birthday on Halloween. (Lona Mae is still quilting, crafting, sewing, knitting and crocheting for friends and family and to benefit those in need.) The angel's body is made from a white silk flower. Isn't she adorable?
Our Christmas tree is decorated with a mix of handmade and purchased, elegant and folksy, whimsical and traditional ornaments. What is constant is that each item on the tree has special meaning to our family and I take pleasure in recalling that meaning each year. This little angel was crafted by my Aunt Lona Mae, who celebrated her 100th birthday on Halloween. (Lona Mae is still quilting, crafting, sewing, knitting and crocheting for friends and family and to benefit those in need.) The angel's body is made from a white silk flower. Isn't she adorable?
Monday, November 8, 2010
My Stepmother, JoAnn
JoAnn |
One thing that I am certain about is that JoAnn was gifted and did express herself through her gifts. She would probably laugh at me saying she was gifted, but that was because she was also modest. Her gifts came to us simply by knowing her and being around her, and they will last much longer than she could have ever imagined.
She had and expressed the gift of love. I don't believe that there was one of us in our large family that didn't benefit from her love in some way. She had a way of letting you know that you mattered to her, and that you were an important part of the family and her life.
She had the gift of listening. In a one-to-one conversation, she listened more than she talked. She focused on you and you could feel her interest and her empathy. Expressing her own opinion was not as important to her as hearing yours.
She had the gift of enjoying and appreciating life. She enjoyed many friendships, two of whom were planning an overnight visit with her this week. She was looking forward to spending time with them. Her youngest great-grandchild, Georgia Beth, was a visitor to her bedside in the hospital. Her words to Georgia Beth, as she caressed her little face, were, "I would like to see you grow up."
She had the gift of strength. JoAnn might have appeared frail, but she impressed and amazed me at her determination to continue to do as much as possible for herself and my dad. Her strength of character drove her forward as her body's strength diminished.
She had the gift of graciousness and hospitality. I think that she learned good manners at her mother's knee, and she demonstrated it to the very end of her life. We marveled at her sweet smiles and hello to each of us during the hours that she was occupied with the very hard and painful work of dying. She wanted us each to know that she treasured the time she had spent with us.
She had a gift for teaching. Again, she would probably deny that she was a teacher, but I believe that the best instruction comes by example. Her example will stay with me for the rest of my life and if anybody were to say that I was loving, a good listener, enjoyed life, gracious, hospitable, strong, or a good example, I'd say "I learned that from my stepmother, JoAnn."
My mother, Jeffie Jean, died at 55 and we loved her and missed her greatly. After a time, I joined the rest of the family in welcoming JoAnn to our family. She had known my dad since they attended a little country school together, although he was several years older than she. To me, she was the nice lady who worked in the office of James Kahn's Department Store, and later a good friend and neighbor to both of my parents. We all celebrated Dad's and JoAnn's marriage because we wanted our dad to be happy. We didn't know it at the time, but our family needed JoAnn. She proved that to us over the years that we had her and I am grateful that she was willing to move to from Missouri to Oklahoma and thankful to her son and grandchildren for sharing her with us.
I will truly miss my stepmother, JoAnn.
Annie
Thursday, October 28, 2010
The Night the Martians Landed: A Family Story from Halloween, 1938
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Illustration from 1906 edition of HG Wells' War of the Worlds |
I had heard and read about the broadcast and its effect on individuals and families across the country. It was planned as a 60-minute Halloween radio drama, an episode of the Mercury Theatre on the Air, and was directed and narrated by Orson Welles. The first two-thirds of the broadcast was presented as news bulletins which suggested that an actual invasion by Martians was taking place. There were no commercial breaks, which added to the sense of realism. The use of the news bulletin format also contributed to the believability of the story, as well as to the resulting panic, since people were accustomed to legitimate newsflashes, but not those used as part of a work of fiction.
According to Wikipedia, historians have calculated that six million people heard the broadcast, 1.7 million believed it to be true and 1.2 million were genuinely frightened. According to my aunt, a number of those who believed it and were frightened resided in southeast Missouri, and were outside that Sunday evening, gazing toward the sky.
Aunt Sister, Uncle Jesse, and their three children stayed home from church and were listening to the radio, probably doing the equivalent of today's "channel surfing" between the Chase and Sanborn Hour, featuring ventriloquist Edgar Bergen and singer Nelson Eddy, and the Mercury Theater. The first comedy sketch on the Chase and Sanborn Hour ended about fifteen minutes into the program and was to be followed by a musical selection, presenting a good time to change the station. This would have taken them directly into the middle of the Martian invasion on Mercury Theater, with no reassurance that what they were hearing wasn't really happening.
This is a part of what they heard:
Ladies and gentlemen, this is the most terrifying thing I have ever witnessed. . . . Wait a minute! Someone's crawling. Someone or . . . something. I can see peering out of that black hole two luminous disks . . . are they eyes? It might be a face. It might be . . . good heavens, something's wriggling out of the shadow like a gray snake. Now it's another one, and another one, and another one. They look like tentacles to me. There, I can see the thing's body. It's large as a bear and it glistens like wet leather. But that face, it . . . ladies and gentlemen, it's indescribable. I can hardly force myself to keep looking at it, it's so awful. The eyes are black and gleam like a serpent. The mouth is kind of V-shaped with saliva dripping from its rimless lips that seem to quiver and pulsate.
How many of us have thought about what we would do if the world was coming to an end? Their instincts were to gather with other family members, so they left in their car to travel the few miles to the my grandparents' home.
On the way there, my aunt noticed that baby Sandra's shoe was missing, that she must have dropped it or left it at home. Uncle Jesse reassured my frightened aunt, that Sandra "wouldn't be needing her shoe."
She also noted that people standing out on the dirt roads as they travelled, looking at the sky and exclaiming, "They're coming! They're coming!"
When they arrived at Mom and Pop's, the house was empty. Mom and Pop had gone to Arkansas to church and hadn't yet returned home. After a short time, they and the rest of their children arrived, asking what was going on.
According to Aunt Sister, Pop didn't believe a word of the story. He also scoffed at his oldest child's fear, declaring, "I didn't know that I raised a child who would be afraid to die."
Little brother Earl, then stepped up and joined forces with his sister, put his arms around her and said, "You raised two of them!"
The family story ends here, and we can imagine the relief they and others like them felt when they learned the truth. We can also understand their panic and fear in a time when modern communication was still in its infancy. We might also want to temper any thoughts or comments we might have about naivete or the willingness to believe the unbelievable -- at least until after Halloween!
Annie
p.s. You can hear the Mercury Theater broadcast on YouTube. It is in multiple parts, so I am not including links.
Friday, October 1, 2010
My Suggestion for Oprah's Aging Beauties
I watched Oprah's program on beauty and aging last night and was very interested in what Teri Hatcher, Cybill Shepherd, and Linda Evans had to say. (Okay, I was also interested in what Cybill and Linda look like now, since they are in their sixties. But that's another subject.)
The focus was primarily on what happens when really beautiful women age and have to come to grips with their beauty fading. Not having been beautiful at a young age nor when older, I can't really speak from their experience, but I did have my share of compliments and attention as a reasonably attractive woman and can offer my opinion on the subject.
Of course, there were background photos of these gorgeous women as they were and their own remarks about how they didn't really feel beautiful when they were younger. I'm not saying that they (Cybill and Linda, specifically) weren't being truthful, but I wonder what they thought about the rest of us, if they didn't see themselves as beautiful.
But that's really not what this post is about. All three women, plus Oprah, emphasized the importance of finding things to like about ourselves, to develop our inward beauty and grace, and to accept the inevitability of (our culture's concept) of physical beauty going away.
I agree with them. I also read somewhere that it's good for women to have beauty when we're young, brains when we're older and money when we're really old. (I'm not sure that is the exact way it should be quoted.) I agree with that, also.
For those of us who don't have great reserves of beauty, brains, or money, I have another suggestion. I would like to offer it to Teri, Cybill, and Linda. I think that Oprah would agree that the best thing you can have as a hedge against loss of beauty, love, money, or even when you get so old your brains give out is ----- GIRLFRIENDS!
If you have girlfriends, they probably didn't choose you as a friend because you were beautiful, and they certainly won't care if your beauty fades. They will be there when your looks go (but will keep telling you that you look great). They will be there when your man is gone either because he's found another, probably younger woman or because, sadly, men tend to die earlier than women. They will be there when your money is gone or it's not, because they will remember the fun you had when none of you had any. They will be there when your brains aren't so sharp anymore -- they'll point you in the right direction and make sure you stay out of trouble.
It may well be that Teri, Cybill, and Linda have girlfriends. I know that Oprah has Gayle, but I hope she has some other girlfriends, too. It's my belief that you can't have too many girlfriends. The subject didn't come up on the "Fading Beauties" show and I wondered why.
I think that the rest of us, especially those who were never "great beauties" understand the value of our friends. We wouldn't trade them for anything!
Annie
The focus was primarily on what happens when really beautiful women age and have to come to grips with their beauty fading. Not having been beautiful at a young age nor when older, I can't really speak from their experience, but I did have my share of compliments and attention as a reasonably attractive woman and can offer my opinion on the subject.
Of course, there were background photos of these gorgeous women as they were and their own remarks about how they didn't really feel beautiful when they were younger. I'm not saying that they (Cybill and Linda, specifically) weren't being truthful, but I wonder what they thought about the rest of us, if they didn't see themselves as beautiful.
But that's really not what this post is about. All three women, plus Oprah, emphasized the importance of finding things to like about ourselves, to develop our inward beauty and grace, and to accept the inevitability of (our culture's concept) of physical beauty going away.
I agree with them. I also read somewhere that it's good for women to have beauty when we're young, brains when we're older and money when we're really old. (I'm not sure that is the exact way it should be quoted.) I agree with that, also.
For those of us who don't have great reserves of beauty, brains, or money, I have another suggestion. I would like to offer it to Teri, Cybill, and Linda. I think that Oprah would agree that the best thing you can have as a hedge against loss of beauty, love, money, or even when you get so old your brains give out is ----- GIRLFRIENDS!
If you have girlfriends, they probably didn't choose you as a friend because you were beautiful, and they certainly won't care if your beauty fades. They will be there when your looks go (but will keep telling you that you look great). They will be there when your man is gone either because he's found another, probably younger woman or because, sadly, men tend to die earlier than women. They will be there when your money is gone or it's not, because they will remember the fun you had when none of you had any. They will be there when your brains aren't so sharp anymore -- they'll point you in the right direction and make sure you stay out of trouble.
It may well be that Teri, Cybill, and Linda have girlfriends. I know that Oprah has Gayle, but I hope she has some other girlfriends, too. It's my belief that you can't have too many girlfriends. The subject didn't come up on the "Fading Beauties" show and I wondered why.
I think that the rest of us, especially those who were never "great beauties" understand the value of our friends. We wouldn't trade them for anything!
Annie
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